on writers and motivation6:30 AM
One thing that I love about writing is that the first few stages of it are more often than not, solitary. Sure, I brainstorm with people sometimes, but overall, planning schedules and techniques, researching, and writing it out is more or less one of those things that you reserve for yourself. Nothing makes me happier than spending a night immersed in half plotting my story and half reading writing blogs on the craft.
However, while I immerse myself in the solitude, I do tend to feel down. Don’t we all? Since writing is a closed-door thing, the support is left stuck right behind the door. Writing is a crippling love. We put our entire souls into it, and sometimes our souls are just left empty.
That’s where the support comes in. We need support / motivation / encouragement to keep us going. We can’t exactly handle writing like a sport or instrument. We can’t lug writing on the stage, perform it (spoken word and poetry slams are an exception of course!), and wait for the applause. We can’t bring it to a court, dribble and shoot, and take a confetti-smothered trophy home.
So how do we get support?
|I love this quote so much (credits to Google!)|
What I’ve found cool is that when I talk to my friends and family about writing, all I need is to dodge the ‘So when can I read your writing?’ question, and they’re a box full of support. It’s still terrifying for me to explain my writing to people I know, but the reward — so much curiosity packed with encouraging words — is so worth the risk.
|I think this is one of my favorite quotes that really catapulted me into writing. Credits to Pinterest.|
It doesn’t always have to be food. We can treat ourselves to this great book we’ve been eyeing in the bookstore, a proper night of full sleep, a movie night, some tea or hot chocolate, or a hangout with a friend. Little rewards, scattered every now and then, can boost our motivation!
|Okay so this quote is amazing + credits to Google again!|
We shouldn’t always try to overwork ourselves. I’ve noticed ‘work’ days limited to a few hours are much better than cramming my writing into just one long slog of a day. It keeps me lucid and at the same time I feel a strange kind of slow, rewarding productivity.
|So here's another quote I guess?! Google, thank you.|
It’s hard to be a writer. The support and the help isn’t there enough, because honestly, people don’t really get why we struggle at writing when we’re writers. So we can accept our emotions and try to understand and process them. Then: voila, respect for ourselves and our emotions morphs into us transforming into our own cheerleaders.
|I love you Google for providing me access to amazing writing quotes.|
This is my favorite recommendation. Supporting other writers not only makes them happy, but it makes you feel so much better as a person / writer. Most of the time, those you support tend to motivate you right back, so it’s great that in writing communities, from in-person to online are full of encouragement being passed around.
I’m 59302857% ready to give motivation to you! Tell me: what parts of writing do you need motivation the most, and what do you do if you need it?
(Oh, and wanted to pop in and say that I'm sorry this is a late post?! I'm actually on vacation, traveling abroad, so I have to scavenge for WiFi only when I can -- and when I'm not faced with scenic beauties that you'll see in April's Quarterly Wrap-Up! I'll reply to you all soon!)
- Andrea <3